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This episode is special for many reasons but the best of all is they I and Yasir bhai have put in all of our best knowledge and experiences on the table for all of you to learn from.

Thumbnail says 'especially for boys' because they are the breadwinners and expected to stand tall while juggling with multiple responsibilities specifically after getting married. Females and whole families can learn from this episode a lot as well because when two families come together nobody is spared the consequences. We have tried our best to touch upon many angles that relate to emotional, mental and physical wellbeing of all our family members.

This is not about one night stand! This is about every other night after suhag raat that has to contribute to strength of your relationships. So let's delve deeper into things and explore together. Grab your coffee or have those popcorns ready. Relax and enjoy! Timestamps:

0:00 Teaser
2:08 Introduction
3:27 Financial Literacy for marriage
5:40 Dreamy Egos
7:00 Happily ever after?
8:15 Uncomfortable conversations!
10:20 Unhealthy expectations
11:35 Importance of Value System
13:40 Marriage planning v/s wedding planning
15:00 Extreme show-off
18:00 Entering partnership before Suhaag Raat
20:40 Alignment for all nights ahead
23:50 Ignoring Red Flags
26:20 Decision-making fundamental
27:40 Boys turning into Mama’s boy
28:30 All-boys v/s Co-education
31:30 Important and Urgent matters
34:05 Hypocrisy all over
36:28 Pyar hota kia he?
41:20 Life partner ka exposure
44:10 Manage Expectations
47:52 Quality questions
50:15 Dekhi Jayegi??
51:27 Obsession with Superficial things
53:30 Intellectual compatibility
57:45 Commonality of choices
59:10 Common Ground for the couple
1:01:14 What are Important Values?
1:04:14 Why assume?
1:04:55 Drawing Boundaries in extended families
1:07:51 Your role as a mediator
1:10:25 Tone matters
1:11:55 Don’t mix relationships
1:16:00 Respect goes both ways
1:19:36 Courage to be a man
1:21:10 Invisible boundaries
1:22:50 Confronting parents
1:29:43 Munafiqat v/s politically corrected
1:34:00 Professional Help
1:35:00 Sexual Aspect
1:43:00 Emotional Regulation
1:45:55 Sexually priorities and tendencies
1:49:28 Knowledge of sexual desire
1:52:55 Exploration for fulfilling relationships
1:58:35 Cost Benefit Analysis for marriage

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